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- How do they fall asleep? Wake up? Any daily rituals? - Ive answered a similar question already but here we go. Noiz cant sleep without some part of him touching aoba, usually hes full on entangled around him or has manipulated aoba into being the big spoon and is holding onto aobas arms or legs. Aoba is a deep sleeper so he doesnt mind (although the first time he realized noiz grabs for him in his sleep if aoba moves away he was like "fuck my boyfriend is sickeningly cute"). Noiz has to wake up first because he goes to his job earlier than aoba ever has to be anywhere but a lot of the time aoba will wake up long enough to kiss noiz goodbye or if hes feeling really conscious he will go hop in the shower w noiz for a quickie. If its the weekend or a vacation when noiz doesnt have to be anywhere they both sleep in and fool around until 10ish. Daily rituals uh, noiz goes to work lol, aoba sometimes comes and meets him for his lunch break, aoba is usually home making dinner when noiz gets home from work, or if not they order something out. Aoba volunteers a lot, at retirement homes, animal shelters, he works with little kids, stuff like that, because he knows they dont need him to bring in MORE money so he figures he can be useful and stay busy by doing volunteer work, it also allows him to be able to schedule his time off during any vacations noiz has without any problems.
- How’s their team work? Do they share well? yeah theyre great w teamwork, generally this comes out when aoba needs noizs help for home renovations or something (noiz is happy to help as long as its not a super messy job that will give him splinters), when they cook together as well, pretty much when they DO an activity noiz lets aoba lead for the most part. unless its dance class.
- Are they open about their relationship? How do they feel about public displays of affection? hahahahaha.....a question made for me..okay. they are not secretive at all. Noiz is like. okay. he has framed pics of him and aoba in his office, the one on his desk he updates regularly with new pics of aoba. he has pictures of aoba standing next to the things hes built/reno'd around the house just so noiz can show it to people and say "have you seen my husband? also he built that gazebo himself". noiz is like, amazed by his husband he is ridiculously proud of aoba and god okay I could talk about this all day but one last thing, every year for aobas birthday (and for some other holidays too) noiz pics out new colognes for him, the people at the store come to know him and they turn it into a game to where whoever can sell a bottle to noiz gets a bonus. noiz says things like "I need it to smell like a capable and beautiful man" "I need this cologne to bring out his strength of character and his generosity" like, noiz, those arent smells. but eventually he picks one he thinks is just right and the person who sells it to him gets to gloat until the next time noiz comes in. everyone at the shop is like "you know, you should bring your husband in so we can get a better idea of what scents he might like!" what they really mean is they want to meet this beautiful amazing person theyve only seen pictures of in person, noiz is like "hm yeah that would be a good idea". every time aoba meets people through noiz they are always like, ENAMORED by him because noiz makes aoba sound like an amazing and perfect person (well he is but still). aoba just assumes everyone in germany is REALLY nice. aoba is also very affectionate towards noiz and constantly talks about how lucky he is and how much noiz does for him, people that know noiz but dont initially know aoba meet him and are just like, expecting aoba to be some golddigging airhead but they find out hes like, SWEET? and sincere and genuinely in love with noiz they are just like, flabbergasted, because noiz has this really indifferent air about him and his face doesnt show expression very often (unless hes around aoba, dont look at me while Im writing this okay?) so they just think of him as this cold constantly annoyed guy, but when they see noiz and aoba together theyre just like "goddamn I wish MY marriage was like this" okay I need to stop because I could literally write an essay on this lmao...
- Nicknames? Pet names? Any in-jokes? aoba pretty much calls noiz "anata" or just "noiz", hes not huge into terms of endearment and this comes from my understanding that in japanese culture pet names are not really common at all. Noiz (okay get ready) noiz doesnt KNOW a lot of pet names because he never heard them as a kid growing up because his family was cruel :), so he basically uses the simplest most common german pet names because those are the ones he knows about from tv or whatever (so like leibchen or schatzi, also I learned that apparently "hasi" is a common german pet name and it means bunny :3 so that too), also for ease of writing because IM not japanese or german I have them both say "baby" and "babe", babe is generally favored by aoba and baby is more used by noiz, (yes, yes I have thought really thoroughly about this shut up)
uh I have never really thought up and inside jokes for them
- Any tasks that are always left to one person? aoba picks up the dirty laundry because noiz is a bratty child about it (mary's headcanon: noiz will vacuum, pick up the dirty clothes on the floor, vacuum underneath them, then throw them back on the floor). aoba generally does a lot of the housework because hes home more often, and therefore makes more of the messes
- What annoys them the most about their partner? Would they change it if they could? noiz gets annoyed that aoba is picky about things or will make him pick up his underwear off the bathroom floor and put it in the clothes hamper. aoba gets annoyed that noiz is TOO handsome.
- What do the like best about their partner? noiz loves how aoba gets flustered and aoba loves that noiz is very relaxing for him to be around cause noiz doesnt sweat the small stuff. as far as physical, aoba loves noizs peach fuzz butt and noiz loves the small of aobas back.
- Do they discuss big issues? Religion? Marriage? Children? Death? they talk about EVERYTHING but I think generally noiz hates to talk about death and most other negative things. they have long conversations about children which is a whole nother discussion, marriage isnt a discussion, noiz always knew he wanted to marry aoba he just had to figure out the best way to propose (Im gross)
- Who drives? Cooks? Does the handiwork? Cleans? Pays the bills? Handles the public? noiz drives, it takes a long time for aoba to learn how to drive (he just takes public transit or walks or bikes usually). aoba does MOST things that require like, fixing. leaky faucets, he renovates the kitchen cabinets like once a year, noiz generally only helps if aoba needs him to. they both clean but aoba cleans more probably just because hes home more, noiz handles the finances cause he brings in the money, handles the public? what is this celebrity au
- Do they celebrate holidays? Anniversaries? may Im gonna kill you for finding this meme these questions are too good for me. YEAH THEY ARE SOO INTO HOLIDAYS AND ANNIVERSARIES, noiz wants to make like, the perfect christmas card life with aoba, genuinely, he loves to make aoba feel special and fawned over. aoba also loves it because he just loves doing things in general. they have holiday traditions every year but just because mostly they are like "that was fun last year, wanna do it again?" everything is really easy and not forced
- Is there a wedding? What was the proposal like? Any kind of honeymoon? *starts crying* yes, noiz does, yes. I cant go more in depth Im crying
- What do they do for fun? Do they have a favorite activity or do they like to switch things up? LOTS of stuff, aoba wants to show noiz ~*the world*~ and noiz gets a fair amount of vacation time and they have a ton of money to blow so theyre always traveling, one year aoba hears about this "real" "haunted" hotel where if you stay in the haunted room for 2 nights you get one night free, they go to america they go to australia (noiz hates australia) they go on cruises, they do everything *starts crying again*
- Anything they both dread? idk, losing the other? no for real I think when things get really terrible between noiz and his family he really fears losing his job and not being able to support aoba anymore (aoba makes sure they have a sizable savings account just to try and make noiz feel a little bitter) and he reminds noiz that he was never rich before him so its not like he wouldnt be able to handle it if they werent overflowing with cash. aoba dreads noiz's family because they make noiz feel AWFUL and they (especially noizs mom) outright mock aoba in front of both of them which drives noiz up the wall and aoba has to try extra hard to laugh it off so noiz wont blow up. other than that though they dont have much else to dread
- How adventurous are they? didnt I just answer this question?
- What does their home look like? Their room? god its hard for me to think of their home cause like, I have so many good ideas but not all of them go together. generally its big but not HUGE because aoba doesnt want a beast of a house to maintain. mainly they have a big open floorplan and lots of big windows but other than that I keep waffling between layouts and stuff, their room though I have an excellent idea of what it looks like, its large and has vaulted ceilings, an attached bathroom thru double doors with a jacuzzi tub and separate shower set in stonework, and its got that thing where the water comes down like, just from the ceiling? yeah, their bathroom is beautiful
- Does their work ever interfere with the relationship? not in any long term way, it doesnt put stress on their relationship but yea sometimes noiz has to go away for business and aoba cant usually come with him (he has other obligations and sometimes its not practical for him to go). they video call every night and aoba packs cute little things for noiz, noiz leaves aoba little notes hidden around the house, its just sickening
- How do they hug? Kiss? Tease? Flirt? Comfort? god these questions..okay. noiz is just like, however and whenever and wherever he can touch/hug/kiss aoba is where he does it, like he doesnt have a filter on that sort of thing. aoba is very deliberate about his physical affection though, for noiz is like, a reflex. aoba does like to hold noizs hand when they are out in a crowded place though just so they dont lose track of eachother, he also tends to "groom" noiz while theyre together, he will fix his shirt collar, smooth out a wrinkle on his shirt, brush his hair back into place, noiz loves this attention so sometimes he purposely like, shoves his shirt sleeve out of place just so aoba comes over and fixes it. disgusting. noiz sometimes has terrible nightmares about his past and these are some of the only times noiz doesnt ask for aobas attention (he wants him to comfort him but he doesnt want to ask because he doesnt want aoba to associate giving noiz affection with noiz feeling bad) but aoba wakes up and sits with him in his lap and strokes noizs hair so he can calm down and get back to sleep. shoot me. either one of them will sometimes "secretly" try to get the other one worked up in public, aoba might rub noiz's thigh under the table at a restaurant, noiz might come over to aoba when they are at a work function/get together and like, rub against him discreetly,,,,,,
- How do their friends feel about their relationship? Their families? I talked about this in regards to their friends but their parents okay. aoba's granny warms up to noiz pretty much right away because shes a great judge of character and can tell noiz is very genuine (although she reacts mostly with annoyance at their over-the-top lovey dovey attitudes, gross you two, not at the kitchen table). noiz's parents HATE aoba, they think hes dense and generally they just hate him for no real reason except that hes in love with their son (whom they also hate), and their Good Son LOVES HIM, noiz's brother loves aoba, they actually hang out relatively often, noizs brother also loves noiz but noiz feels a little weirded out by this because hes amazed that his brother accepted him so easily hes a little suspicious of him even though he cant find any real reason to not trust him.
- How do the handle disasters or emergencies? Minor injuries? Sickness? talked about this already in another meme but its been a while. big emergencies freak noiz out he doesnt handle Big Emergencies well, aoba is generally the collected one, Ive thought about one time maybe noiz gets in an accident and aoba like, loses it and noiz has never seen him worked up like that over anything before. minor injuries, noiz is a big fuckin baby, aoba takes it like a champ, although he gets irritated when he gets sick because he knows noiz is going to make HIMSELF sick too just so they can kiss without aoba worrying about noiz catching it (because he already caught it :P so we can kiss now aoba :P its okay :P). aoba makes sure not to ever catch noiz's colds so he can take PROPER CARE OF HIM but noiz just gets pouty during a cold, the only part he cant stand is that aoba doesnt sleep in bed with him and he wont let him even HUG him. "because if -I- get sick then whos gonna take care of you?"
- Do they have finish each other’s sentences? Pick up any phrases or habits from each other? Know when the other is hiding something? when noiz helps teach aoba german he picks up the way noiz says things, noiz's inflections and mannerisms of his speech, so aoba talks a little like noiz when he speaks german. its cute. aoba cannot keep a secret noiz can read him like a book, noiz is excellent at keeping secrets.
- Do they have any pets? YEAH they get a bunny, noiz teaches it to do really cool tricks and makes a blog for it, it gets internet popular and aoba feels like a proud dad. okay this is the first time they talk about having kids, aoba mentions noiz "makes a really good bunny daddy ^_^" and noizs face lights up and hes like "yeah? do you think Id make a good dad, aoba?" it takes a minute but aoba gets what hes trying to say and then they start talking about when and how theyd go about having kids
- Do they bring out the best in each other, or the worst? Do they have a fatal flaw? for the most part they each bring out the best in eachother, but having aoba around lets noiz be as lazy as he wants because aoba is naturally self motivated, he will just do things and not even think of asking/telling noiz to do anything. noiz brings out more of a vain side of aoba, aoba comes to realize how attractive he really is and so starts to really take pride in his appearance and he knows he looks good (I wouldnt personally call this a flaw but some people might).
- Do they let each other get away with things that would normally bother them? yeah aoba doesnt generally like physical affection? he doesnt normally hug his friends or anything, thats reserved for noiz. I would say the same about noiz but none of noiz's friends want to hug him in the first place. noiz would normally feel smothered by someone who was always fixing his clothes and doting on and checking on him but he loves when aoba does it.
- Are the comfortable with each other? Anything they have to have their privacy for? theyre both really comfortable with eachother, aoba wasnt always, he would still close the door when he went to the bathroom, it took him a while to shower with noiz, noiz is naturally inhibition and shame free so he was always comfortable around aoba.
- How’s their team work? Do they share well? yeah theyre great w teamwork, generally this comes out when aoba needs noizs help for home renovations or something (noiz is happy to help as long as its not a super messy job that will give him splinters), when they cook together as well, pretty much when they DO an activity noiz lets aoba lead for the most part. unless its dance class.
- Are they open about their relationship? How do they feel about public displays of affection? hahahahaha.....a question made for me..okay. they are not secretive at all. Noiz is like. okay. he has framed pics of him and aoba in his office, the one on his desk he updates regularly with new pics of aoba. he has pictures of aoba standing next to the things hes built/reno'd around the house just so noiz can show it to people and say "have you seen my husband? also he built that gazebo himself". noiz is like, amazed by his husband he is ridiculously proud of aoba and god okay I could talk about this all day but one last thing, every year for aobas birthday (and for some other holidays too) noiz pics out new colognes for him, the people at the store come to know him and they turn it into a game to where whoever can sell a bottle to noiz gets a bonus. noiz says things like "I need it to smell like a capable and beautiful man" "I need this cologne to bring out his strength of character and his generosity" like, noiz, those arent smells. but eventually he picks one he thinks is just right and the person who sells it to him gets to gloat until the next time noiz comes in. everyone at the shop is like "you know, you should bring your husband in so we can get a better idea of what scents he might like!" what they really mean is they want to meet this beautiful amazing person theyve only seen pictures of in person, noiz is like "hm yeah that would be a good idea". every time aoba meets people through noiz they are always like, ENAMORED by him because noiz makes aoba sound like an amazing and perfect person (well he is but still). aoba just assumes everyone in germany is REALLY nice. aoba is also very affectionate towards noiz and constantly talks about how lucky he is and how much noiz does for him, people that know noiz but dont initially know aoba meet him and are just like, expecting aoba to be some golddigging airhead but they find out hes like, SWEET? and sincere and genuinely in love with noiz they are just like, flabbergasted, because noiz has this really indifferent air about him and his face doesnt show expression very often (unless hes around aoba, dont look at me while Im writing this okay?) so they just think of him as this cold constantly annoyed guy, but when they see noiz and aoba together theyre just like "goddamn I wish MY marriage was like this" okay I need to stop because I could literally write an essay on this lmao...
- Nicknames? Pet names? Any in-jokes? aoba pretty much calls noiz "anata" or just "noiz", hes not huge into terms of endearment and this comes from my understanding that in japanese culture pet names are not really common at all. Noiz (okay get ready) noiz doesnt KNOW a lot of pet names because he never heard them as a kid growing up because his family was cruel :), so he basically uses the simplest most common german pet names because those are the ones he knows about from tv or whatever (so like leibchen or schatzi, also I learned that apparently "hasi" is a common german pet name and it means bunny :3 so that too), also for ease of writing because IM not japanese or german I have them both say "baby" and "babe", babe is generally favored by aoba and baby is more used by noiz, (yes, yes I have thought really thoroughly about this shut up)
uh I have never really thought up and inside jokes for them
- Any tasks that are always left to one person? aoba picks up the dirty laundry because noiz is a bratty child about it (mary's headcanon: noiz will vacuum, pick up the dirty clothes on the floor, vacuum underneath them, then throw them back on the floor). aoba generally does a lot of the housework because hes home more often, and therefore makes more of the messes
- What annoys them the most about their partner? Would they change it if they could? noiz gets annoyed that aoba is picky about things or will make him pick up his underwear off the bathroom floor and put it in the clothes hamper. aoba gets annoyed that noiz is TOO handsome.
- What do the like best about their partner? noiz loves how aoba gets flustered and aoba loves that noiz is very relaxing for him to be around cause noiz doesnt sweat the small stuff. as far as physical, aoba loves noizs peach fuzz butt and noiz loves the small of aobas back.
- Do they discuss big issues? Religion? Marriage? Children? Death? they talk about EVERYTHING but I think generally noiz hates to talk about death and most other negative things. they have long conversations about children which is a whole nother discussion, marriage isnt a discussion, noiz always knew he wanted to marry aoba he just had to figure out the best way to propose (Im gross)
- Who drives? Cooks? Does the handiwork? Cleans? Pays the bills? Handles the public? noiz drives, it takes a long time for aoba to learn how to drive (he just takes public transit or walks or bikes usually). aoba does MOST things that require like, fixing. leaky faucets, he renovates the kitchen cabinets like once a year, noiz generally only helps if aoba needs him to. they both clean but aoba cleans more probably just because hes home more, noiz handles the finances cause he brings in the money, handles the public? what is this celebrity au
- Do they celebrate holidays? Anniversaries? may Im gonna kill you for finding this meme these questions are too good for me. YEAH THEY ARE SOO INTO HOLIDAYS AND ANNIVERSARIES, noiz wants to make like, the perfect christmas card life with aoba, genuinely, he loves to make aoba feel special and fawned over. aoba also loves it because he just loves doing things in general. they have holiday traditions every year but just because mostly they are like "that was fun last year, wanna do it again?" everything is really easy and not forced
- Is there a wedding? What was the proposal like? Any kind of honeymoon? *starts crying* yes, noiz does, yes. I cant go more in depth Im crying
- What do they do for fun? Do they have a favorite activity or do they like to switch things up? LOTS of stuff, aoba wants to show noiz ~*the world*~ and noiz gets a fair amount of vacation time and they have a ton of money to blow so theyre always traveling, one year aoba hears about this "real" "haunted" hotel where if you stay in the haunted room for 2 nights you get one night free, they go to america they go to australia (noiz hates australia) they go on cruises, they do everything *starts crying again*
- Anything they both dread? idk, losing the other? no for real I think when things get really terrible between noiz and his family he really fears losing his job and not being able to support aoba anymore (aoba makes sure they have a sizable savings account just to try and make noiz feel a little bitter) and he reminds noiz that he was never rich before him so its not like he wouldnt be able to handle it if they werent overflowing with cash. aoba dreads noiz's family because they make noiz feel AWFUL and they (especially noizs mom) outright mock aoba in front of both of them which drives noiz up the wall and aoba has to try extra hard to laugh it off so noiz wont blow up. other than that though they dont have much else to dread
- How adventurous are they? didnt I just answer this question?
- What does their home look like? Their room? god its hard for me to think of their home cause like, I have so many good ideas but not all of them go together. generally its big but not HUGE because aoba doesnt want a beast of a house to maintain. mainly they have a big open floorplan and lots of big windows but other than that I keep waffling between layouts and stuff, their room though I have an excellent idea of what it looks like, its large and has vaulted ceilings, an attached bathroom thru double doors with a jacuzzi tub and separate shower set in stonework, and its got that thing where the water comes down like, just from the ceiling? yeah, their bathroom is beautiful
- Does their work ever interfere with the relationship? not in any long term way, it doesnt put stress on their relationship but yea sometimes noiz has to go away for business and aoba cant usually come with him (he has other obligations and sometimes its not practical for him to go). they video call every night and aoba packs cute little things for noiz, noiz leaves aoba little notes hidden around the house, its just sickening
- How do they hug? Kiss? Tease? Flirt? Comfort? god these questions..okay. noiz is just like, however and whenever and wherever he can touch/hug/kiss aoba is where he does it, like he doesnt have a filter on that sort of thing. aoba is very deliberate about his physical affection though, for noiz is like, a reflex. aoba does like to hold noizs hand when they are out in a crowded place though just so they dont lose track of eachother, he also tends to "groom" noiz while theyre together, he will fix his shirt collar, smooth out a wrinkle on his shirt, brush his hair back into place, noiz loves this attention so sometimes he purposely like, shoves his shirt sleeve out of place just so aoba comes over and fixes it. disgusting. noiz sometimes has terrible nightmares about his past and these are some of the only times noiz doesnt ask for aobas attention (he wants him to comfort him but he doesnt want to ask because he doesnt want aoba to associate giving noiz affection with noiz feeling bad) but aoba wakes up and sits with him in his lap and strokes noizs hair so he can calm down and get back to sleep. shoot me. either one of them will sometimes "secretly" try to get the other one worked up in public, aoba might rub noiz's thigh under the table at a restaurant, noiz might come over to aoba when they are at a work function/get together and like, rub against him discreetly,,,,,,
- How do their friends feel about their relationship? Their families? I talked about this in regards to their friends but their parents okay. aoba's granny warms up to noiz pretty much right away because shes a great judge of character and can tell noiz is very genuine (although she reacts mostly with annoyance at their over-the-top lovey dovey attitudes, gross you two, not at the kitchen table). noiz's parents HATE aoba, they think hes dense and generally they just hate him for no real reason except that hes in love with their son (whom they also hate), and their Good Son LOVES HIM, noiz's brother loves aoba, they actually hang out relatively often, noizs brother also loves noiz but noiz feels a little weirded out by this because hes amazed that his brother accepted him so easily hes a little suspicious of him even though he cant find any real reason to not trust him.
- How do the handle disasters or emergencies? Minor injuries? Sickness? talked about this already in another meme but its been a while. big emergencies freak noiz out he doesnt handle Big Emergencies well, aoba is generally the collected one, Ive thought about one time maybe noiz gets in an accident and aoba like, loses it and noiz has never seen him worked up like that over anything before. minor injuries, noiz is a big fuckin baby, aoba takes it like a champ, although he gets irritated when he gets sick because he knows noiz is going to make HIMSELF sick too just so they can kiss without aoba worrying about noiz catching it (because he already caught it :P so we can kiss now aoba :P its okay :P). aoba makes sure not to ever catch noiz's colds so he can take PROPER CARE OF HIM but noiz just gets pouty during a cold, the only part he cant stand is that aoba doesnt sleep in bed with him and he wont let him even HUG him. "because if -I- get sick then whos gonna take care of you?"
- Do they have finish each other’s sentences? Pick up any phrases or habits from each other? Know when the other is hiding something? when noiz helps teach aoba german he picks up the way noiz says things, noiz's inflections and mannerisms of his speech, so aoba talks a little like noiz when he speaks german. its cute. aoba cannot keep a secret noiz can read him like a book, noiz is excellent at keeping secrets.
- Do they have any pets? YEAH they get a bunny, noiz teaches it to do really cool tricks and makes a blog for it, it gets internet popular and aoba feels like a proud dad. okay this is the first time they talk about having kids, aoba mentions noiz "makes a really good bunny daddy ^_^" and noizs face lights up and hes like "yeah? do you think Id make a good dad, aoba?" it takes a minute but aoba gets what hes trying to say and then they start talking about when and how theyd go about having kids
- Do they bring out the best in each other, or the worst? Do they have a fatal flaw? for the most part they each bring out the best in eachother, but having aoba around lets noiz be as lazy as he wants because aoba is naturally self motivated, he will just do things and not even think of asking/telling noiz to do anything. noiz brings out more of a vain side of aoba, aoba comes to realize how attractive he really is and so starts to really take pride in his appearance and he knows he looks good (I wouldnt personally call this a flaw but some people might).
- Do they let each other get away with things that would normally bother them? yeah aoba doesnt generally like physical affection? he doesnt normally hug his friends or anything, thats reserved for noiz. I would say the same about noiz but none of noiz's friends want to hug him in the first place. noiz would normally feel smothered by someone who was always fixing his clothes and doting on and checking on him but he loves when aoba does it.
- Are the comfortable with each other? Anything they have to have their privacy for? theyre both really comfortable with eachother, aoba wasnt always, he would still close the door when he went to the bathroom, it took him a while to shower with noiz, noiz is naturally inhibition and shame free so he was always comfortable around aoba.
